Deprive Emotions in Times of Burden; The Detachment Strategy
You are not Spock like the one in Star Trek. We are humans and it proves that emotions is one of the greatest strengths and weaknesses that comprises the enigma of what is humanity. But like I have probably mentioned earlier in the first posts is we must also learn to detach ourselves. For example, I have realized that my family and their petty squabbles are dragging me along and was even required more than twice to pay for such things and mistakes that I don't even contributed in. Therefore, I prefer to just vanish without a trace later for the purpose of breaking free from any possible future torment and financial problems that usually come up whenever I finish a problem of theirs.
Do not be afraid. Do not also be fazed when people say you whine too much. It is great when you know what the problem is and have determined and realized it. The problem with a lot of people is they tend to say too much against you but can't actually stand up to their own. Be a realist which is a way of perceiving the world as opposed to the typical person's understanding of it as pessimistic. Remember that the only way of fighting a war is a visible enemy and from that point you will be able to wage an offensive in a direct or indirect manner.
Do not be afraid. Do not also be fazed when people say you whine too much. It is great when you know what the problem is and have determined and realized it. The problem with a lot of people is they tend to say too much against you but can't actually stand up to their own. Be a realist which is a way of perceiving the world as opposed to the typical person's understanding of it as pessimistic. Remember that the only way of fighting a war is a visible enemy and from that point you will be able to wage an offensive in a direct or indirect manner.
Take the Initiative. Do Not Depend on What Was Given to You
It is unfortunate that a lot of people live in an era where society and the media dictates what a person should become. A lot of people go to college because "it is necessary" to get a job and live. But one should ask him or herself if that is truly living a life when I know that most people would just graduate from college, work, enjoy for the moment, get broke and repeat the pathetic process for the rest of their lives. Others, seek a false sense of security via entitlement like how most Americans burden the government who would very likely fail to meet their expectations.
THE REALITY:
As my favorite author Robert Kiyosaki stated, most people live in a rat race. It's not just financially, it's also mentally. Curtis Jackson, A.K.A 50 Cent also saw through the varieties of possible slavery either in his hood or in the corporate world. The settings may have changed, but the rules, the ruthlessness and those environments' way of clouding people are all the same.
YOUR MISSION:
It is your mission to educate yourself like Socrates should. Adopt that you are not wise but you admit that you are ignorant of things. Now this requires common sense, what I mean here is we must be capable of taking away our emotions related to matters of pride. I know that we love to be known for something but the world is a big place and there are a whole lot of things which we obviously don't know about. It is a mission of assessing and continuously improving yourself. Think first if what people say or if this or that is something you should take into consideration.
Learn how to break free. Rome wasn't built in day but you can break free from you chains bit by bit. You just need to focus and don't do things that are unnecessary. True happiness is when you have your own freedom where no one is capable of putting you down and dictating things that put you in harm's way.
THE REALITY:
As my favorite author Robert Kiyosaki stated, most people live in a rat race. It's not just financially, it's also mentally. Curtis Jackson, A.K.A 50 Cent also saw through the varieties of possible slavery either in his hood or in the corporate world. The settings may have changed, but the rules, the ruthlessness and those environments' way of clouding people are all the same.
YOUR MISSION:
It is your mission to educate yourself like Socrates should. Adopt that you are not wise but you admit that you are ignorant of things. Now this requires common sense, what I mean here is we must be capable of taking away our emotions related to matters of pride. I know that we love to be known for something but the world is a big place and there are a whole lot of things which we obviously don't know about. It is a mission of assessing and continuously improving yourself. Think first if what people say or if this or that is something you should take into consideration.
Learn how to break free. Rome wasn't built in day but you can break free from you chains bit by bit. You just need to focus and don't do things that are unnecessary. True happiness is when you have your own freedom where no one is capable of putting you down and dictating things that put you in harm's way.